When it comes
to your first date, you want everything to go
smoothly and according to plan. Here are some
top tips to make sure you both have a great time!.
Tip 1: You
could do the typical thing, and have a meal in
a restaurant for your first date. However, if
you do that, and later you find out that can't
stand your date, you will have to wait until the
end of the meal before you can make a graceful
departure, and that may be a couple of hours away!
Besides which, it can be expensive, and remember
that you have to tip! Instead, consider choosing
a coffee date at a Starbucks or similar coffee
cafe. It won't last long, and if you find you
don't get on with your date, it won't be long
before you can find the door.
Tip 2: Why
not do something more adventurous on a first date?
A fun activity like ten-pin bowling or a visit
to a theme park is far more likely to be enjoyed
by both of you than a cup of coffee, and even
if you don't like each other, you should enjoy
the activity! Do try to look for something that
you'll both enjoy, though. Ice skating may be
fine if you're both keen to do it, and have about
the same level of skill; otherwise, give it a
miss.
Tip 3: If you
must do the typical dinner-date for your first
date, at least try not to make it somewhere really
expensive, where you'll be frowned at by snooty
waiters for any little slip that you make. It
should be obvious that you should also not go
for a meal at a cheap fast-food restaurant! Try
to go for somewhere cosy and comfortable. You
only need somewhere that's priced at around the
£10/US$20 per head mark. You could even
go to a pub; there are plenty of inns that have
a very cosy, intimate atmosphere, and you can
get some nice, cheap meals at these places for
about half the price of a restaurant meal.
Tip 4: Your
choice of clothing for your first date should
be in-keeping with the activity you intend to
do. Within the bounds of being appropriate, try
to dress reasonably smartly, and be well-groomed
and washed. Clothing is more important for men;
affluent dress will certainly impress. For women,
make-up is more important; men don't know a great
deal about clothes, especially ladies' clothes,
and as long as what you wear looks good superficially,
that is all you need to worry about, except of
course, don't dress too provocatively unless you're
looking for action.
Tip 5: Don't
do something that you are not both comfortable
doing! If you do something just to please him/her
on your first date, you won't enjoy it. This will
come across in your body language, if nothing
else. You'll be very bored!
Tip 6: Do something
that will involve the two of you talking, at least
for some of the time. A visit to the cinema is
no good at all; a theatre visit could work out,
because there's an intermission. For a first date,
you want to get to know them! How are you going
to do that, if you don't do any talking?
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